Sunday, July 12, 2009

Should I be at fault?

Last night my bf and I were wrestling well he knows that I don't like it when he blows on my stomach and he did it. Well as we're both laughing I pulled him by his hair to get him off of me,because that's all I could grab at the moment! Well he got P***** off!! I mean seriously mad!! Well he told me to leave and I got up to go! I threw his picture that he gave me out on his driveway. So he took the pic that I gave him of me and tore it 2 pieces and threw it in my face!! Well then we broke up. You have to know that this is not the stupidest thing we've ever fought about!! Hehe....well now he's blaming everything on me and telling me I'm bad person!! I need to know how to deal with this because it's driving me crazy!!!



Should I be at fault?

You guys need to have a little space to think about what happened and then have a mutual apology. You sholdn't have pulled the dude's hair; but there seemed to be a LOT of over reacting on both parts. Give it half a day and call him up.



Should I be at fault?

girl..he sounds very immature ..u should know that..he is not only controlling you and telling you things to make you feel bad..you have got to get rid of him. he is really mean to you. he is making you feel like you are not vaulable....forget him.



Should I be at fault?

He didn't respect your feelings. If you don't like it then he shouldn't have done it...NO means NO, it doesn't matter what it applies to. He needs to get over it and understand that it is not behavoir that you will tolerate, or you need to move on!



Should I be at fault?

Id deal with it by getting a new man.



Should I be at fault?

It sounds to me like you have a very volitile relationship - the way I see it is he over reacted at your pulling his hair in play wrestling but then you let it continue by throwing a picture on the ground and then he kept it going by tearing up your picture and you have now broken up - my guess is your not suited to each other and it might be time to move on.



Should I be at fault?

He did something that you don't like and you did something that he doesn't like. It's neither of your fault. You guys need to forget and forgive if you want to make this work. Also, you need to remember that two wrongs don't make a right.



Should I be at fault?

Give him the flick and get on with your life...you dont need a drop dead in your life..



Should I be at fault?

i have the same problem with my boyfriend and it drives me up the wall i always have to and up apologizing for hes fault which is wrong! you are not in the wrong! and if he really loved you he would apologize for being an ***! and if he does not i am sure that you will find a way beter person that respects your wishes! one that deserves you!



Should I be at fault?

well...i mean doing that can be fun, but if you don't like it, then he shouldn't do it



and then he got mad because you pulled his hair? i mean i could see getting a little angry i guess, even though i wouldn't because i'd know we were messing around, but then ...all of that



over blowing on your stomach



you need to find a more mature guy



Should I be at fault?

He needs to learn how to control his emotions, what if your guys were married, I would wait a few days, and talk to him, but you really need to ask your self is this the guy I want to have a long term relationship with? this might be a blessing in disguise, maybe God is trying to talk to you, listen up girl, get out now?



Should I be at fault?

consider yourself in the shoes of him.think what you would had done if u were in his place instead.if u then think you were wrong then apologize otherwise he will realize himself if he was at fault.

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